My fate on this server rest in the people of Ragnaroks handsFollow

i for one dont want to see you leave, but if you feel you must, i wont try to stop you.

Well i feel like majority of this server hates me and that no hnm would take me so if i go on another server i will start out fresh

Matt don't go, I for one enjoy your company. Who cares if certain HMN LS's don't take you. I had a couple reject me...do I care no...

It is a select few that dislike you, me, certain people and then they have their followers that will go with that one persons opinon. I know another dynamis LS that you can join and another HMN LS.

Rather than change server, y not start another job, invest in more concentration & professional skill, to re-earn your respect from others?

Changing server just b/c many ppl dont like you atm, is kinda silly imo. You must have made some friends here too, r u going to just leave them behind? <.<

I'll be deadly honost here: I've exped with your whm before(a few months ago, me as rdm, around 63), had some bad experience, wrote your name on memo & decided to not pt with you again. From what I heard, I'm not alone either.

That doesn't mean I think there's no hope in you. Anybody could change, if they are willing to. It never hurts to find out what you did wrong to make others hate you, so you can fix and improve yourself.

Other than that...perhaps whm's simply not your job(Afterall, ffxi's not just a race to 75 & join HNM LS). It helps IMO if you take more jobs at higher level, to see the whole picture of pt, & perhaps find out what job really fits your soul.

I learned alot each time I level a job of different task(Tank, DD, Mage, support), which made me ashamed of how little I know before, but also felt good to know I can now see things that I couldn't see before when I'm in party. Try some. I see you have bst to 31 too. Take that up further will also provide you another angle to view this world.

edited: Grammer

Edited, Thu Jun 9 03:34:41 2005 by Freedoomone

Hmm good advice yeah i also almost had a static with my brd and i was gonna lvl 75 with that that is if bst dont get there 1st

I've met you once. When I was dead on the secret beach and you in your whm af trampled all over my back on the way to gustav tunnel. Thanks for not even saying, "{Raise} {I'm Not up for it}" or anything at all.
As for as I know, you don't change my opinion of high level acomplished players.
Sayonara!

Thank You airaims yes you are right about my persona i just wish everybody felt about it the same way people take 1 impression on somebody and never give them a 2nd chance and the reason why i probably didnt raise you cause 1 you didnt ask me and 2 i was probably doing an ls event

Run across half of the world to raise someone - no, you're not expected to do that. However, if you pass someone lying dead on the ground I expect you to raise if have the spell. It's not the duty as a Whm but as a fellow player. If you won't stop for 10 seconds and cast raise then you are a bloody idiot.

In this case, who knows what happened... Sometimes I run with the map up checking this or that or just not paying attention to where I am, same might have happened in this case, maye he just didn't see Minona.

you know im telling the truth-.-.... so what you are not in HNMLS or Dynamis LS? alot friends of mine not in them too... but doesnt mean you cant have fun.. and same time earn some respect from people.. -.- my Advice dont leave cuz people doesnt like you..

-.- its naru, just using co-workers computer-.-..

Edited, Thu Jun 9 13:09:54 2005 by airwick

Oh he saw me alright, he walked around, looked at me, looked at my party, who asked him to raise me(I was the whm), and then he went in the water to gustav. He had plenty of time. And when I asked Tahkuyne in my linkshell who knew him, why he didn't raise, he said, he didn't feel like it and some other foolishness.

That's my story, that's as far as I'm going to go on this subject. If this guy leaves, so be it. He can stay and try to turn his reputation around, or forget who says what about him and his past, and play the game however he wants.
If you're playing the game for attention, Matt, it's for all the wrong reasons.

Edited, Thu Jun 9 13:53:16 2005 by Minona

Wherever you go, there you are. Your problems won't improve on a new server if you don't improve.

I've had friends who claim to have had similar incidents with him as Min's. Maybe he was just having a bad day. I don't know. All I can go by is what my own and my friend's experiences are. Maybe he turned bitter cause he got screwed over by helping people. Maybe he's just doesn't think. It doesn't really matter. If someone is trying to leave this server to get away from a bad reputation, they should be aware that chances are it's going to follow them no matter where they go unless if they start over from scratch without letting anyone know it's them. Just like people from our server and others are checking out the server they would end up on if they moved to, those two servers are checking us out to see what they will be getting from here.

My advice, if you want to move for a fresh start, more power to you. But whether you stay or go, I'd suggest at least thinking about some of the incidents people are mentioning or some of the reasons why you think members of the community aren't your biggest fan and work on that aspect of it. Airamis is right, we've all done something to another player we aren't proud of, whether intentional or not. We all have our bad days where we come across as rude to those expecting help from us, whether we are trying to be or not. Best thing to do is try to work a little harder the next time the opportunity comes up to make it right so that person remembers the good and not the bad incident.

Hmm i never thought that the other server is checking us out hmm interesting factor