Mid August my wife started acting differently. Wearing makeup, dressing nicer etc. End of August she sends me a text in the basement saying she's heading to bed soon. She'd been sleeping in our son's room for some time.
Our daughter comes down stairs an hour later with a stomach ache caused by a nasty fall she took at the park earlier, all bruised up. It was odd that my wife didn't hear her across the all.
My wife isn't home.
I text her. 5 minutes later she texts back that she went for a walk. She doesn't do that, certainly not at 11:00 at night.
It eats at me so I end up checking her facebook that she left open. First conversation is with another man and starts with "I'm looking to have an affair", turns out it's an old boyfriend, "Do you remember what the *** was like", "You should come over between 12 and 2" (when I'm at work), "No you come here during the week and I go there on weekends", [Insert Pics] "Nice tits" etc.
Swears she never actually did anything, talked to some guys on POF but they were all pigs so nothing happened.
Spend two months trying to make it work, she's much much more affectionate. Much more fun.
...doesn't matter because I can't trust her and she's being secretive with all of her communication. Phone screen turns off as soon as I'm in the room etc.
Now we're getting separated and I've spent the last 2 weeks fixing the house for sale, sign goes up tomorrow.
Still living together, still sleeping together, she's happy, I'm sad, have to tell kids tonight because sign goes up on house tomorrow...
Running out of places to put the lemons and sick of making lemonade.