Care to explain that...?
Just kidding. Unlike other posters here, I'll back up what I say.
During my personal experience, research, "research" and testimonies, I've gathered a lot of information.
1. Most of the sexual pleasure stems from the clitoris, which is not the focus in vaginal sex. So, if sex were primarily for pleasure, then the two should have been more closely related.
2. The female slowly "builds" to an orgasm, while a male holds back to ensure the woman's pleasure. So, while the woman is building to an orgasm, numerous guys could literally take turns having orgasms before she has one.
3. The man has a "wait" period in between orgasms unlike a woman who has reached her peak can experience multiple orgasms. It's a trade off, if it were all about "pleasure", the two should be combined. Both men and women having multiple orgasms on their will with no wait period, just like anything else in the world we enjoy. Instead, once the man is done, he has to get it back working again, yet the woman can endure much longer but at the possibility of not being fully satisfied. This leads into #4
4. Women are far less likely to have an orgasm in comparison to men during sex. It's practically guaranteed for a male. How is it that the sperm donor is "guaranteed" an orgasm, but the carrier isn't, if it's all about pleasure?
You don't understand what I'm saying, Alma. I'm not saying that it's primarily for pleasure. I'm saying it's for both, and whichever is primary doesn't matter at all.
I understand that concept fully, I'm just saying it's wrong. Sexually feelings literally come and go through our life span, which just so happens to be during our child bearing years.
Also... Lord there's so many alsos. Your analogy to food is ridiculous because you CAN focus only on pleasure when it comes to sex without killing or hurting yourself (STDs etc. not entering into it, of course). I have no idea what this jumble of letters means or that there's a theory involved. Men like sex with women because it's better, not because they want a parsel of brats.
Why would you take out "STDs, etc"?
TPGOITV = The penis goes in the vagina. I was trying to save time, but I think it's actually quicker for me to type it out because then I'm not pausing and thinking of the next letter.
How is sex with a person better if you can still experience an orgasm without one? (excluding love, because we all know love isn't a criteria for sex)
And you should reread my post. I don't give a sh*t what's first and what's second. This isn't a race where whichever biological function comes in first wins the "biologically normal" prize.
It's not a race.. pleasure is a side function, just like in any other bodily function we have. Next you'll be saying taking a dump is for pleasure to relieve you from feeling heavy.