Digglet, we normally live in different countries, too - just that now, I can't leave Pakistan and come back without a visa extension, he doesn't want to come here because he's a prosecuted minority over here, and it's just a new situation for him.
This is the new guy in Germany, btw.
With the guy I was supposed to marry, we had some weird ass debate about creationism last night (when I was way too tired to debate anything) with him basically saying that not believing in it is ridiculous and unreasonable while continuously skirting the issue, and then there's the deal about whether I am Ahmadi and how that's a complete dealbreaker.
Speaking of, dinner was amazing apart from the bit where the 2 Pakistani hosts were boasting about how well minorities are treated here. Hindus, Sikhs, Jews, Shias, Christians, sure. Certain other minorities? Not so much. I literally got up and vanished into the restaurant's washroom to go talk to someone who's not biased that way on my phone.
Edit: Pigtails, I'd rather discuss more details in private. I'm online at work 9-5 PKT (that's GMT-5, no summer time, so 12 hours ahead of you iirc). Or more like 9.15-1:25 and 2:30-5:45 or something. It kind of varies. Edited, May 31st 2012 6:31pm by Kalivha