I just got this helmet for my wood elf bard. It looks on him pretty much exactly like it does in the graphic above. Makes him look a little like a fork-horn buck. By the way, I found a faerie wing on a vendor inside Kaladim South, so keep looking if you aren't ready to hunt faerie maidens. (I found it on the weapon vendor opposite the postal bard.)
Actually, the look depends on the race of the wearer. I think the picture up there is how it looks on a male half-elf. On my female half-elf it doesn't look like that or how you described it.
You mean to tell me you are in a guild, have got a magelo profile, and STILL have no idea how the EQ graphics system works? 3 armour textures per race/sex combination, as well as a robe if you race includes casters. EVERYTHING else is colour tints over the base texture. Thats it. 3 types of head gear per model. This one is the WEF male plate model.
There are cultural helms so that's 4 types. And technically, there are more graphics for races if you have the luclin model on, as it is differnt than non-luclin models.